स्त्रीहरूको सेक्स अपिल कसरी बुझ्ने

हामी धेरैले जादु हेरेका छौँ। जादु भनेको मान्छेको आँखाको दृश्यशक्ति वा सम्मोहन शास्त्रमा भर पर्छ। सम्मोहन भनेको अरूलाई मोहित पार्नु वा आफूतर्फ आकर्षित गर्नु हो। मानव जातिमा लोग्ने मान्छेमा मात्र यो शक्ति रहन्छ। सम्मोहन शक्तिलाई सजिलो तरिकाले भन्दा यसरी बुझ्न सकिन्छ- मानौँ एउटी वयस्क युवती सजिएर बाटोमा हिँडिरहेकी छे। ऊ आफूलाई अति राम्री सम्झिन्छे। त्यस्ती युवतीलाई तपाईंले अनुहारमा हेरिदिनुभयो भने उसको घमन्ड बढ्छ। त्यस्ती युवतीलाई छड्के आँखा पारेर खुट्टामा हेरिदियो भने ऊ स्वतः लज्जित हुन्छे। खुट्टामा हेरेर प्याच्च थुकिदिनुभयो भने केही पर पुगेर आफ्नो जिउडाल फर्की-फर्की हेर्न थाल्छे। र, नजिकमा घर वा कोठा भए फर्केर गई ऐना हेर्छे यो लोग्ने मान्छेको सम्मोहन शक्तिको गुण हो। यो यथार्थ तपाईं बाटोमा आफैँ प्रयोग गर्न सक्नुहुन्छ। यो विश्व प्रमाणित पनि हो।जतिसुकै व्यस्त आइमाई भए पनि घरबाट बाहिर निस्कँदा घडी अर्थात् समयलाई महत्व दिँदैनन्, ऐना हेर्छन्। ऐना नहुनेले मुख पुछपाछ गरी कम्मर मर्काइ-मर्काई आफ्नो शरीर हेर्न थाल्छन्। सम्मोहन शास्त्रलाई अझै सजिलोसँग यसरी बुझ्दा हुन्छ- विश्वको सबैभन्दा ढिलो हिँड्ने -घस्रने० प्राणी अजिङ्गर हो। चितुवा र मृगको गति झन्डै समान हुन्छ। मानौँ सय मिटर टाढा रहेको एक मृगसँग अजिङ्गरको आँखा जुध्यो। त्यसबेला मृग त्यहीँ थुचुक्क बस्छ र लामो समय लगाएर अजिङ्गर गई निल्छ। मृगलाई आफू मोहित भएँ भन्ने थाहा हुँदैन। त्यस्तै लोग्ने मान्छेको आँखाबाट आफू मोहित भएको कुनै पनि युवतीलाई थाहा हुँदैन।यदि तपाईंको नाताबाहिरकी युवती र तपाईं दुई जना मात्रै एउटा बन्द कोठामा हुनुहुन्छ। युवती एउटा खुट्टा अर्कोमा चढाएर वा उपरखुट्टी लगाएर बसेकी छे भने तपाईंले यौन प्रस्ताव राख्नुहुँदैन। राख्नुभयो भने तपाईंको गालामा थप्पड वा चप्पल पर्नेछ। तर खुट्टा फारेर बसेकी छे। देब्रे या दाहिनेमध्ये कुनै एक हल्लाउँछे भने समागमको प्रस्ताव राख्नुभयो भने फरक पर्दैन।

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उत्तेजनात्मक अंगहरु

व्यक्ति-व्यक्तिमा केही फरक पर्ने भए पनि यौनांग, यौनांगवरिपरिको क्षेत्र, नितम्ब, ओठ, गर्दन, स्तन, काखी, तिघ्रा, नाभीक्षेत्र आदि केही प्रमुख यौनसंवेदनशील अंग मान्न सकिन्छ । यौनांगको कुरा गर्दा पुरुषहरुको लिंगलाई नबिर्से जस्तै महिलाको यौनांगको कुरा गर्दा भगांकुरलाई बिर्सनु हुँदैन ।

गहिरिएर हेर्ने हो भने हाम्रो शरीर नै यौनमय छ र यौन उत्तेजनाको कुरा वास्तवमा हाम्रो मस्तिष्कबाट नै सुरु हुन्छ । यस अर्थमा भन्ने हो भने मस्तिष्क नै हाम्रो सबैभन्दा महत्त्वपूर्ण यौनांगको रुपमा लिन सकिन्छ । प्रत्यक्षरुपमा यौनसंवेदनशील अंगलाई उत्तेजित पारेकोजस्तो देखिए पनि वास्तवमा प्राक्क्रीडाको दौरानमा हामी मानसिकरुपमा पनि तयार भइरहेका हुन्छौं । प्राक्क्रीडाले यसरी हामीलाई शारीरिक तथा मानसिकरुपमा तयार गर्ने भएको हुनाले नै हामीले भरपूर यौनआनन्द प्राप्त गर्न सक्छौं ।

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किन बिहेपछि पनि अनैतिक सम्बन्ध राख्छन ? पुरा पढ्नुहोस्

विवाहपछि महिला पुरुष पारिवारिक जिवनमा प्रवेश गर्छन् । तर यौन वैज्ञानिकहरु भने विवाहबाट केवल सामाजिक नियमका आधारमा महिलापुरुष लोग्ने स्वास्नीको रुपमा एक भएका हुन्छन् तर भावनात्मक रुपमा उनीहरुलाई एक बनाउने काम भने यौन सम्बन्धले मात्र गर्छ ।
विवाह भनेको स्त्री पुरुषका लागि एक भावनात्मक तथा सामाजिक बन्धन पनि हो जो जिवन भर एक दोश्रोको बीचमा रहिरहन्छ ।

    मनोविज्ञहरुका अनुसार यौनमा असन्तुष्टिले वैवाहिक जिवनलाई तोड्न ठूलो भूमिका खेल्छ । वास्तवमा महिला र पुरुष दुबैको हकमा यौनिक असन्तुष्टी दाम्पत्य जिवन टुंग्याउने मुख्य कारकको रुपमा रहेको मात्र छैन यो विभिन्न खाले अनैतिक तथा नाजायज सम्बन्ध र अपराधको कारक समेत बन्ने गर्छ ।

 एक शोधका अनुसार विश्वका विकशित देशमा परपुरुषसँग नाजायज सम्बन्ध राख्ने महिलाहरु मध्ये ४१ प्रतिशतले यस्तो सम्बन्ध एउटा खुल्ला खेल बनिसकेको र त्यो सामान्य कुरा रहेको ठान्छन् । यस्तो धोखाधडीको मामिलामा पुरुषहरु पनि कम छैनन् ।

आफ्नो जिवनसंगिनीबाट यौन तथा भावनात्मक सन्तुष्टि प्राप्त गर्न नसकेर मात्र होइन नयाँ अनुभव बटुल्नका लागि वा कहिलेकाहीँ परिबन्दमा परेर समेत परस्त्रीगमन गर्ने पुरुषहरुको संख्या धेरै छ । शोधका अनुसार केही स्त्रीहरु यस्ता पनि हुन्छन् जो आफ्नो यौनको इच्छापूर्तिका लागि ऐश आराम तथा धन सम्पत्तिलाई लात मार्दै यस्ता युवकसँग लहसिन्छन् जसले उनको यौनको भोक शान्त पार्न सक्छ ।

 मनोविज्ञहरुका अनुसार आफ्नो श्रीमानबाट यौन सन्तुष्टि मिलेन भने महिलाहरु मानसिक रुपमा निकै प्रताडित बन्छन् जुन पीडामा मलहम लगाउन उनीहरुले परपुरुषसँग अनैतिक सम्बन्धको बाटो लिन्छन् । विवाहपछि सुरु हुने पारिवारिक जिवनमा विभिन्न खाले समस्याहरु पैदा हुनु सामान्य कुरा हो ।
हाम्रो संस्कारमा श्रीमान कामको शिलशिलामा बाहिर हुन्छन भने श्रीमती प्राय घरमै हुन्छन् । जसले गर्दा श्रीमान श्रीमतिको भेट हुनु पनि मुस्किल हुन्छ। भेट हुँदा पनि अफिसको टेन्सन सबै श्रीमतीमाथि थोपर्ने कारणले माया, प्रेमको भावना आउनुको सट्टा रिसाउने गर्दछन।

फलस्वरुप त्यस्ता महिलाले अर्को पुरुषको खोजी गर्न थाल्छन् जसले प्रेम र सहानुभुति सँगै यौन सन्तुष्टि पनि प्रदान गर्न सकोस् ।यसरी तनावमा हुँदा श्रीमतीसँग झगडा गर्न पनि पछि पर्दैन जसले महिलामा तनाव तथा नैराश्यता सिर्जना गर्छ । अन्ततः ती महिलामा आफ्नो श्रीमानसँग सेक्स गर्ने चाहना मर्दै जान्छ ।

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What makes good sex good? And what makes great sex better than good sex? Is it the overall amount of pleasure? The overall amount of excitement? The emotional connection with the other person? The intensity of the orgasm? The profoundness of the experience?

There is in all likelihood no unique answer to these questions. However, in a recent study Nielsen and her colleagues found that sex may be less satisfying for people who experience very intense sexual arousal. The team examined several parameters of sexual experience in people with an extraordinary sensory condition, known as synesthesia. Synesthesia is an unusual binding of experiences or mental images. For example, music-color synesthetes hear musical notes as colored and lexical-gustatory synesthetes see or hear words as having particular tastes.

About two percent of the population experience colors and flavors or other sensory qualities during orgasm and sexual arousal. The experienced colors and flavors are seemingly unrelated to the sexual act. That is, they are not sensory qualities of bodily fluids, bright clothing or the bedroom background music but are experienced as a kind of extra vision or mental imagery triggered by touching, caressing, petting or climax.

Sexual synesthesia can lead to a sexual trance, an altered state of consciousness. The descriptions of it resemble reports from people who experience synesthesia while under the influence of hallucinogenic drugs, such as LSD and magic mushrooms. One form of altered consciousness during drug intoxication is an experience of rapidly changing colors, shapes and textures in response to music.
In their study of sexual experiences in synesthetes, Nielsen and her colleagues found that synesthetes experienced the most intense forms of sexual trance and therefore had very profound physical and psychological experiences during sex. But surprisingly perhaps, these extreme states of arousal did not make the synesthetes rate their experiences as more satisfying than ordinary folks. On average, synesthetes were significantly less satisfied after sex than people without the condition.

A sexual trance may be experienced as an extremely intense physical and psychological state of arousal, involving total absorption. An extreme state of arousal, however, does not necessarily make sex feel maximally satisfying. Donald Mosher, a researcher at the University of Connecticut, has proposed that two other factors are equally important for great sex. One is role enactment. Role enactment may be thought of as a kind of sexual identity that is acted upon during the sexual act. Role enactment is present when you act out your inner fantasies, for example, your inner dominatrix or your inner Medusa. The other factor is engagement with the sexual partner, including the sexual partner's responses to what you do and to your sexual arousal and the ability to have a shared experience. Maximum sexual satisfaction is an equilibrium of all three factors: sexual trance, role enactment and partner engagement.

The researchers suggest that the decreased satisfaction in synesthetes may be due to the fact that they are unable to fully share their sexual experiences with partners who have more earthly sexual experiences. This, in turn, may lead to a lack of engagement with the partner and a feeling of isolation. These findings emphasize the importance of partner involvement for everyone, regardless of the nature of their sensory experiences. A sexual trance may be a goal worth pursuing but maximum sexual satisfaction cannot be achieved without role enactment and partner engagement.

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महिलाहरुको मनभित्र के भइरहेको छ ? यो विषय पुरुषका लागि एउटा ठुलो प्रश्नका रुपमा रहने गरेको छ। अझ यदि कुरा सेक्सको हो भने त यस्तो के कुरा छ जो महिलालाई यतातिर आकर्षित गर्दछ ?
एक शोधका अनुसार कतिपयको बुझाईमा महिलामा सेक्सप्रति इच्छा जागृत हुनुको सम्बन्ध उनीहरुको उमेरसंग छ।
तथ्य त यो हो कि मध्यम उमेर र बढी उमेरका महिलाहरुमा यौन गतिविधिहरु केवल उमेरबाट नियन्त्रित हुंदैन। उनीहरुका लागि साथीको स्वास्थ्य र उसको सम्भोगप्रतिको उत्सुकताले ठुलो अर्थ राख्दछ। यसैबाट उनीहरु प्रभावित हुने गर्दछन्।
२८ देखि ३५ वर्ष उमेर समूहका महिलाहरु सेक्स गर्नका लागि सक्रिय त रहन्छन् तर उनीहरु सजिलै कामुक व्यवहार प्रदर्शन गर्दैनन् । यसविपरीत कयौ पटक साथीको उदासिनता, उसको स्वास्थ्य, साथीभित्रको सेक्सप्रतिको कम रुझान आदि कुराले पनि महिलाभित्रको सेक्स इच्छा समाप्त पार्न समाप्त पार्दछ।
हालै गरिएको एक अध्ययनअनुसार महिलाहरु पुरुषको शारीरिक बनावटमा बढी ध्यान दिने गर्दछन् । शक्तिशाली व्यक्तिप्रति शारीरिक रुपले महिलाहरु बढी आकर्षित हुने गर्दछन् । अध्ययनअनुसार महिलाहरु सामान्य पुरुषको तुलनामा हृष्टपृष्ट पुरुषतर्फ बढी आकर्षित हुन्छन् । यसका साथै पुरुषको आक्रामक व्यवहारले पनि बढीजसो महिलालाई खिच्ने गर्दछन्। एजेन्सी

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A man was injected with a deadly poison, but, it did not kill him. Why?
He was already dead!
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A Scottish farmer was in his field digging up his tatties (a Scots word for potatoes). An American farmer looked over the fence and said
"In Texas we grow potatoes 5 times larger than that!"
The Scotsman replied " Ah but we just grow them for our own mouths!"
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1st Eskimo: Where did your mother come from?
2nd Eskimo: Alaska
1st Eskimo: Don't bother, I'll ask her myself!

One day an Englishman, a Scotsman, and an Irishman walked into a pub together. They each bought a pint of Guinness. Just as they were about to enjoy their creamy beverage, three flies landed in each of their pints, and were stuck in the thick head. The Englishman pushed his beer away in disgust. The Scotsman fished the fly out of his beer, and continued drinking it, as if nothing had happened. The Irishman, too, picked the fly out of his drink, held it out over the beer, and started yelling, "SPIT IT OUT, SPIT IT OUT YOU BAS**RD!!!!"
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हस्तमैथुनका बारेमा पुरुषहरुले खुलेर कुरा गरेपनि महिलाहरुले भने यस्तो कुराहरुमा केहि बोल्न चाहँदैनन् । तर, हस्तमैथुनलाई तपाईंले नकार्न पनि सक्नुहुन्न, यो जीवनको एउटा पाटो बनिसकेको छ । हस्तमैथुनलाई लिएर धेरै कुराहरु गरिए कुनै सत्य भए र कुनै असत्य पनि । यहाँ हस्तमैथुनलाई लिएर केहि तथ्यहरु दिइएका छन् ।
हस्तमैथुनका केहि राम्रा पक्षहरु जसलाई तपाईंले पनि स्विकार्नु हुन्छः
- वीर्यस्खलन पछिको आराम
-  आनन्दको चरमोत्कर्ष
-  निद्रा लाग्न मद्दत
-  तपाईंलाई आनन्द दिन्छ
-  तनावलाई घटाउँछ
हस्तमैथुनका केहि साइड इफेक्ट पनि रहेका छन्:
-  हस्तमैथुनले वीर्यको संख्यामा ह्रास आउन मद्दत गर्छ जसले गर्भधारणको मौकामा कमी हुन्छ ।
-  बारम्बारको हस्तमैथुनले तपाईंको सन्तुष्टिमा धेरै समय लाग्ने गर्दछ ।
-  यदि तपाईंको हात कडा छ भने यसले तपाईंको यौनाङ्गमा घाउ बनाउन सक्छ ।
-  हस्मैथुनलाई सामाजिक कलंकको संज्ञा दिइन्छ जसले गर्दा तपाईंको मनोबलमा कमी आउन सक्छ ।

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 लण्डन(एजेन्सीहरु), यौन सन्तुष्टि बारे गरिएको सर्भेमा छिमेकी मुलुक भारत तेस्रो स्थानमा छ । भारतीयहरुले शारीरीक सम्बन्धलाई सुःखी र सफल दाम्पत्य जीवनको एक महत्वपूर्ण अंग मानेका छन् ।

५० प्रतिशतभन्दा बढी भारतीयले यो सम्बन्धबाट सन्तुष्ट रहेको स्वीकारेका छन् । पश्चिमा सञ्चारमाध्यमहरुले लगातारको यौन हिंसापछि भारत बारे ‘सबभन्दा ठूलो लोकतान्त्रिक मुलुकमा बलात्कार’ शीर्षकमा थुप्रै खबर छापेको बेला यो निः सन्देह सकारात्मक सन्देस हो ।

डुरेक्स कन्डोम निर्माण गर्ने एक बेलायती कम्पनिद्धारा गरिएको सर्भेमा भारतका ६१ प्रतिशत जनता स्वस्थ यौन अभ्यासबाट सन्तुष्ट छन् । सर्भेमा पहिलो स्थान नाइजेरिया (६७ प्रतिशत) र दोस्रो स्थानमा उत्तर अमेरिकी मुलुक मेक्सिको(६३प्रतिशत) छ । यसपछि पोल्याण्ड(५४प्रतिशत), ग्रीस(५१ प्रतिशत), होल्याण्ड(५० प्रतिशत), दक्षिण अफ्रिका (५०प्रतिशत) र स्पेन ( ४९ प्रतिशत ) छ । उक्त कम्पनिले यो सर्भेमा संख्यात्मकभन्दा गुणात्मक र स्तरिय सम्बन्धलाई आधार बनाएको हो ।

रोचक पक्ष के छ भने आफ्नो जीवनकालमा १० देखि १२ जनासम्म यौन साथी बनाउने अमेरिका र क्यानाडाका मात्र ४८ प्रतिशत जनताले यौनमा सन्तुष्ट रहेको बताएका छन् । भारतीय जोडीमा यौनक्रिडा र चरम सुखको दौरानमा शारीरीक, मानसिक एवं भावनात्मक समर्पण धेरै बढी देखिएको सर्भेमा भनिएको छ ।

डुरेक्सले तनाव मुक्त सम्बन्ध, यौन स्वीकार्यता, सेक्स सम्बन्धी भ्रम र यसको निरन्तरतासँग जोडिएको प्रश्न गरेको थियो । सर्भेमा भारतीयहरुको यौन जीवन पश्चिमाभन्दा अब्बल देखियो । बाहिरबाट नीकै सरल र सामान्य देखिने भारतीयहरुले देखावटी र नक्कली जीवनयापनभन्दा अझैं टाढा रहेको हुनाले प्राकृतिक यौनान्द लिन सकेको सर्भेमा भनिएको छ ।

Source: eKantipur

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 रक्सी खाएर मातेपछी केटीहरुले यस्तो चर्तिकला देखाउंछन

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She has yet to officially comment about the baggie containing a mysterious white powder she dropped outside her home Wednesday.

And Cara Delevingne certainly didn't let an alleged drug scandal get in the way of her good time at the Met Ball in New York Monday.

The 20-year-old model was too busy kissing her punk lookalike for the night, Sienna Miller, and hobnobbing with the fashion elite to be bothered.
What drug scandal? Cara Delevingne, seen here locking lips with Sienna Miller, certainly didn't let an alleged drug scandal get in the way of her good time at the Met Ball in New York Monday

What drug scandal? Cara Delevingne, seen here locking lips with Sienna Miller, certainly didn't let an alleged drug scandal get in the way of her good time at the Met Ball in New York Monday

The five-foot-eight stunner later tweeted the lip-lock Instagram with the caption: 'Studded love! X'

Both blondes rocked similar hairstyles and vamped it up in studded Burberry designs, which made sense since Cara is the face of the brand's Body Tender fragrance.

Burberry's Chief Creative Officer Christopher Bailey hinted the British company would be sticking with Delevingne despite the white powder scandal as they posed next to famed fashion photographer Mario Testino.

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पुरा भिडियो हेर्न त्यो माथि बक्सको बिचमा क्लिक गर्नुहोस

Jokes: 
Some scientists decided to do the following experiments on a dog.
For the first experiment, they cut one of the dog's legs off, then they told the dog to walk. The dog got up and walked, so they they learned that a dog could walk with just three legs.
For the second experiment, they cut off a second leg from the dog, then they told the dog once more to walk. The dog was still able to walk with only two legs.
For the third experiment, they cut off yet another leg from the dog and once more they told the dog to walk. However, the dog wasn't able to walk with only one leg.
As a result of these three experiments, the scientists wrote in their final report that the dog had lost it's hearing after having three legs cut off.

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येस्को भिडिओ हेर्न को लागि माथिको बक्स भित्र click गर्नु होस् !

Close on the heels of an international furore over the state of California’s decision to ban same-sex marriages, the apex court of nascent Himalayan republic Nepal has given itas nod to such unions.“My eyes were filled with tears when I read the Supreme Court decision,” said Sunil Babu Pant, Nepal’s first publicly gay lawmaker and a gay rights icon in South Asia.

“We, the gay community of Nepal, are the most proud citizens.”

Pant’s exultation came after the Supreme Court Monday delivered full judgement regarding a ground-breaking verdict it had announced last year, recognising sexual minorities, who were among the most oppressed in conservative, patriarchal Nepali society, as being born such and entitled to all the rights and remedies all other Nepali citizens enjoyed.

Now, following up on the judgement, the top court has asked the Maoist government to form a seven-member committee to study same sex partnership/marriage acts in other countries and recommend a similar act to the Nepal government.

The court has also asked the government - that is scheduled to promulgate a new constitution by 2010 - to ensure that the language of the new statute does not discriminate against the sexual minorities.

Also striking a blow for transgenders, who were the butt of abuse for crossdressing, the court has ruled that crossdressing is not perversion but an individual’s freedom of expression.

Nepal’s beleaguered and reviled gay community got a boost for their rights in 2006, after the fall of king Gyanendra’s army-backed government which had clamped down on the community’s rights and seen them join the nationwide public protests against the royal regime.

In August 2006, four months after the king’s exit as head of government, Pant’s gay rights organisation Blue Diamond Society supported the first publicly conducted gay wedding in Nepal.

The first same sex marriage, however, came unstuck since then with one of the partners being a drug abuser.

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लण्डन । महिला ४० वर्ष वरपरको उमेरमा बढी यौन आनन्द लिने गर्दछन् । यस्तो यस कारण हुन्छ कि उमेरको तीसौ दशकको अन्तिम वर्षमा उनीहरु सेक्स्युअल्ली बढी सक्रिय हुन्छन् । यस उमेरमा महिलाहरु बढीभन्दा बढी यौन आनन्द लिन चाहन्छन्।

पर्सनलिटि एण्ड इन्डिभिज्युअल डिफरेन्सेस नामक जर्नलमा प्रकाशित रिपोर्टका अनुसार ४० वर्षको उमेर नजिक पुगेपछि महिलाहरु थाहा हुन्छ कि आफ्नो बायोलजिकल क्लाकको अन्तिम समय नजिक छ। महिलाहरुलाई यतिबेला लाग्दछ कि बच्चा जन्माउने आफ्नो क्षमता अर्थात ‘विन्डो अफ अपरच्युनिटी’ अब चाँडै समाप्त हुनेछ।

नयाँ अध्ययनका अनुसार महिलाहरु आफ्नो ३० दशकमा र ४० को सुरुवाती वर्षहरुमा सेक्स्युअल्ली फ्यान्ट्यासी र अफेयर्सलाई लिएर जवानीका दिनहरुमा भन्दा बढी सक्रिय रहन्छन् ।

९०० महिलामा गरिएको सर्भेबाट यो तथ्य सार्वजनिक भएको छ कि उमेरको यो अवस्थामा महिलाहरुमा सेक्सको इच्छासमेत बढ्दछ। सर्भेमा महिलाहरुलाई तीन ग्रुप बाँडिएको थियो । पहिलो समूहमा १९ देखि २६ वर्षका महिला -जसको फर्टिलिटी निकै बलियो हुन्छ), दोस्रो समूहमा २७ देखि ४५ वर्ष उमेर समूहका महिला -जसको फर्टिलिटी क्षमता बढ्दो हुन्छ) र तेस्रो समूहमा तीम महिलाहरुलाई राखिएको थियो जो मीनोपांजबाट गुज्रीरहेका छन् या पुनः मिनोपांजसम्म पुग्नै लागेका छन् । सर्भेमा प्रौढ उमेरका महिलाहरु सेक्सप्रति बढी सक्रिय र इच्छुक पाइएको थियो ।

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हालैको एक सर्भेक्षणले विवाहित जोडीका सेक्स सम्बन्धी केही रोचक तथ्य फेला पारेको छ । आइ भिलेज भन्ने वेबसाइटले गरेको सर्भेक्षणमा केही त्यस्ता सेक्स सेक्रेट फेला परे जुन निम्न छन्:

-६८ प्रतिशत पुरुषले आफ्नो सबैभन्दा उत्तम सेक्स पार्टनर केटीसँग विवाह गर्छन् जबकी आफ्नो वेस्ट सेक्सुअल पार्टनरसँग विहे गर्ने केटीहरुको संख्या भने ४५ प्रतिशत मात्र हुन्छ ।

-पुरुषका औषतमा ६ देखि १० जनासम्म यौनसाथी हुन्छन् जबकी महिलाका बढिमा२ देखि ५ मात्र । १९ प्रतिशत पुरुष तथा महिलाका केवल १ जनामात्र सेक्स पार्टनर हुन्छन्।

-४२ प्रतिशत महिलालाई आफ्नो श्रीमानले अनलाइनमा अश्लील चिजहरु हेरेको पत्तो नै हुँदैन । यस्तै ६३ प्रतिशत विवाहित महिला आफुले कहिल्यै पोर्न सामाग्री नहेरेको ढोँग गर्छन् ।

-७९ प्रतिशत पुरुषले आफ्नी श्रीमती सेक्सबाट सन्तुष्ट रहेकोमा ढुक्क हुन्छन् तर यसरी यौनसुख पाएँ भन्ने महिला केवल ६१ प्रतिशत मात्र हुन्छन् ।
-५५ प्रतिशत महिलालाई मात्र आफ्नो लोग्ने आफुसँगको सेक्सबाट सन्तुष्ट रहेको लाग्छ तर पत्नीसँगको सम्भोगबाट सन्तुष्ट छु भन्ने पुरुषहरु ७९ प्रतिशत छन् ।

-५२ प्रतिशत महिला तथा ४९ प्रतिशत पुरुषहरु बच्चा जन्मेपछि आफ्नो सेक्स लाइफ ध्वस्त भएको ठान्छन् ।

-४२ प्रतिशत पुरुष ओछ्यानमा महिलाले सेक्सको पहिलो प्रयास गरोस् भन्ने चाहन्छन् ।

४१ प्रतिशत पुरुषले मुखमैथुनको इच्छा राख्छन् भने ३० प्रतिशतले मलद्धार सेक्समा रुची राख्छन् ।

३५ प्रतिशत महिला लामो पाकक्रिडा चाहन्छन्, केवल २२ प्रतिशत महिलालाई मात्र मुख मैथुनमा इच्छा लाग्छ ।

-श्रीमतीको तुलनामा श्रीमान बढि शंकालु हुन्छन् । आफ्नी श्रीमती कसैसँग सल्केकी छे की ? भनेर ३४ प्रतिशत पुरुषले श्रीमतीको मोबाइल चेक गर्छन् भने यसरी लोगनेमाथि शंका लागेर मोबाइल चेक गर्ने महिला केवल २० प्रतिशत मात्र हुन्छन् ।

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Your state of mind can have a big impact on your ability to get aroused. Even if you’re with someone who you find sexually appealing, worrying about whether you’ll be able to please your partner can make it impossible for you to do just that.

In men, one of the effects of the stress hormones is to constrict blood vessels. Less blood flowing into the penis makes it more difficult to have an erection. Even men who normally don’t have any trouble getting excited can become unable to get an erection when they’re overcome by sexual performance anxiety.

Sexual performance anxiety isn’t diagnosed as often in women as it is in men, but it can affect arousal in women, too. Anxiety can prevent women from getting lubricated enough to have sex, and it can take away the physical desire to make love.

Anxiety can take both men and women out of the mind-set needed to have sex. When you’re focused on whether you’ll perform well, you can’t concentrate on what you’re doing in bed. A distracted lover is an inattentive lover, which can make you feel like even more of a failure. Even if you are able to get aroused, you may be too distracted to reach orgasm.

Sexual performance anxiety leads to a perpetual cycle. You become so anxious about sex that you can’t perform, which leads to even more sexual performance anxiety.

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If my periods are irregular, will it be harder for me to get pregnant?

    Can't we just try and see what happens?

    When is the best time to have sex if we're trying to conceive?

    How do I know when I'm ovulating?

  

When is the best time to have sex if we're trying to conceive?

Ovulation Calculator

Find out when you're likely to ovulate – and boost your chances of conceiving.

Timing is everything. Sperm can live for two to three days, but the egg is around for only 12 to 24 hours. To increase the likelihood of conception, it's important to have intercourse more than once around the time of ovulation. A good approach is to have sex one to two days before ovulation and again on the day you ovulate. That way, there's more likely to be a healthy supply of sperm waiting in the fallopian tube when an egg is released.

Of course, exactly when a woman ovulates isn't altogether clear. It all depends on the length of your menstrual cycle. A woman typically ovulates about 14 days before her next period — not mid-cycle, as is commonly held. If you have a 28-day cycle, which is the average, then you would ovulate halfway through your cycle. But if you have a 35-day cycle, you would ovulate around day 21, not day 17.

To determine the time when you're most likely to be fertile, try our ovulation calculator.

How do I know when I'm ovulating?

Some women are very aware of when they ovulate. Other women don't notice any changes at all. If you're thinking about getting pregnant, try to track your cycle for a couple of months. Some subtle signs of ovulation include:

    Breast tenderness

    Slight feelings of discomfort in your middle abdomen

    Increased vaginal discharge that takes on a wetter, egg-white-type quality

    A slight increase (about 0.4 to 1 degree Fahrenheit) in basal body temperature, or BBT, which you can detect by taking your temperature each morning before you get out of bed, two days after you ovulate. You can get a good sense of your cycle if you chart your BBT for a few months.

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Kalee Warnick, a 22-year-old English teacher at Wall High School, was arrested Tuesday on charges of aggravated criminal sexual contact and having a sexual relationship with a minor. Her attorney said she will plead not guilty.

An English teacher in Wall, N.J., has been accused of having a sexual relationship with a 15-year-old student.

Kalee Warnick, 22, was arrested Tuesday on charges of third-degree aggravated criminal sexual contact and second-degree having a sexual relationship with a minor, according to the Asbury Park Press.

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Men & Women Simulate Their Favorite Positions an Air Sex Championships:

" Air Sex World Championships "

Air Sex World Championships
Mary Sledd















A Mickey Mouse Act of Lust at the Air Sex Championships
" Mickey Mouse Man at Air Sex Championships: Austin "

Mickey Mouse Man at Air Sex Championships: Austin
Mary Sledd

It doesn't take much imagination to guess what act this woman is simulating... and it's not stealing gasoline.

This is one of the competitors at the Air Sex World Championships event in Austin, Texas at the Alamo Drafthouse.







Sparks can fly during air sex.
Joel Kieth

 

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Insect sex may seem fairly simple: fluttering dances, clasping abdomens, a quick mount on a forest floor. But a new review of homosexual insect encounters suggests the acts may not be that straightforward for the individuals involved.

Researchers have widely examined homosexual behavior in mammals and birds, but have addressed it less frequently in insects and spiders. To assess the range of evolutionary explanations for same-sex intercourse in the invertebrate world, a team of biologists from Tel Aviv University in Israel and the Swiss Federal Institute of Technology in Zurich, Switzerland examined roughly 100 existing studies on the topic and compiled the first comprehensive review of homosexuality in invertebrates. The review was published earlier this month in the journal Behavioral Ecology and Sociobiology.
The team focused on male-male interactions to simplify the analysis, and found that most of these encounters occurred as accidents. Whereas larger animals have developed more complicated homosexual motivations — like maintaining alliances, which has been found in certain primate and seagull species — insects seem to mistakenly partake in it in a hasty attempt to secure mates. [Gay Animals: Alternate Lifestyles in the Wild]

"They have evolved to mate quick and dirty," said study co-author Inon Scharf, an evolutionary ecologist at Tel Aviv University. "They grab every opportunity to mate that they have because, if they become slow, they may give up an opportunity to mate."

Desperate mates

In some cases, males carry around the scent of females they have just mated with, sending confusing signals to other perusing males. In other cases, males and females look so similar to one another that males cannot tell if a potential mate is a female until he mounts "her" and prepares for the act, Scharf said.

The glass bottle "looks like a huge female to them," Scharf said. "They just try to mate with whatever gives them a vague impression of an opportunity."

Sometimes, such extreme indiscrimination leads to mating with inanimate objects, as has been observed in beetles trying to mount glass bottles.
Other studies do, however, show evidence of more intentional and malicious motivations behind homosexual insect sex. Male butterflies, moths and wasps, for example, use same-sex encounters to distract competitors from potential female mates. Certain beetles have even been found to use same-sex mounting as a way to spread sperm to other males that may then pass it along to the next female he mounts, though this mechanism does not appear to be very effective.
Since male insect anatomy is not designed to accept male genitals, improper penetration can cause bodily damage in aggressively competing mates. This anatomy blocker is not a problem for all species, since not all insect sex involves penetration. Even so, one study found that certain male insects have developed femalelike genitals to lower the risk of damage from homosexual penetration.

Is insect sex pleasurable?

On the other hand, female-female homosexuality appears to have a separate set of motivations, and deserves a whole separate analysis, Scharf said. In general, female-female interactions seem more intentional than male-male interactions. In fact, one study found that certain female beetles mount each other to look larger and attract more male mates.
The frequency of homosexual behavior in the insect world also remains unclear; however, more cases have been observed in the lab than in the field. This could indicate that the behavior occurs during stressful or isolating conditions, Scharf said, but more work is needed to confirm this idea.
"I don't know if they enjoy things or not, or if they feel fear," Scharf said. "They have some stress hormones — and they sense it — but whether you can define this as fear, pleasure or pain is very difficult to say."

And while the possibility that any sort of sexual encounter could induce pleasure in insects may seem unlikely, Scharf does not rule it out.
The team next hopes to conduct experimental studies on a species of beetle to determine how homosexual behavior affects different aspects of the animal's life, and whether the behavior is linked to any other specific types of behaviors.

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 Looking to get closer to your significant other?
Ironically, some time apart might do you some good. According to a new study, people who work away from home actually have more sex with their partner.

Blue Rainbow Apartments conducted the study and found that 7 out of 10 couples get it on the night before a business trip and then again upon a return. Fifty-four percent of subjects said being apart is a turn-on.

Couples who spend one to two nights away from home per month have sex 110 times a year. To compare, that’s almost twice as much as the rest of us.

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Defiant Jasmine: It’s right I had a sex change op in prison

'Ideal body' ... Jasmine after swap

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